“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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This is just sort of a mini rant, I was wondering if any other people felt the same.

Regarding flirty girls: They will compliment you, kino you, make some sort of suggestive remark about you. And then they will go do the exact same thing to every other guy in the area.

This is okay, I guess. But I'd prefer a girl flirts with me because she likes me, not because I happen to be the male who's standing next to her at that point in time. I'd rather a girl single out a guy who she really likes for that treatment, or at least narrow it down.

A flirty girl on steroids is an attention wh0re.

Of course, a lot of guys do the exact same thing. You might tell me "You're not a special snowflake" lol. But really, if you want to get into that top 10 percent, you have to stand out, right? An elite guy really is a special snowflake, yes?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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zekko said:
This is just sort of a mini rant, I was wondering if any other people felt the same.

Regarding flirty girls: They will compliment you, kino you, make some sort of suggestive remark about you. And then they will go do the exact same thing to every other guy in the area.

This is okay, I guess. But I'd prefer a girl flirts with me because she likes me, not because I happen to be the male who's standing next to her at that point in time. I'd rather a girl single out a guy who she really likes for that treatment, or at least narrow it down.

A flirty girl on steroids is an attention wh0re.

Of course, a lot of guys do the exact same thing. You might tell me "You're not a special snowflake" lol. But really, if you want to get into that top 10 percent, you have to stand out, right? An elite guy really is a special snowflake, yes?

Flirty girl IS an attention wh0re. When she comes in to give you attention, pivot her for the preselection and/or ignore her and hit on her quieter friends instead. THEN when she's annoyed nobody is giving her attention you toss her a bone.
 

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samspade said:
Rare is the American female who can be charming AND flirty and know when to turn it on and off. There are exceptional females who flirt when they feel attraction and charm the rest of the time.
I think the girls who are the best at this are better at hiding it.

I knew this one AW girl, she was very careful to make sure she would get each guy off by himself before she'd turn on the real flirty stuff. That way, none of the other guys knew she was giving every other guy the same treatment. The more clumsy flirty girls just blurt out their stuff no matter who is around to hear it.

Again, a lot of guys and DJs do the exact same thing, so I don't know how much you can criticize it. It's just that the girl's flirtations lose pretty much all their value when you know she's doing the same thing with every other dude.
 

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All you have to do is grab her by there hand and tell them, "lets get out of here"
 
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