"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jakeg123

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So I know a girl that is always unintentionally flirty. Flirts with many guys, tends to lead them on by accident. Me being one of those guys a while back. She will talk to them, flirt a bit, then move on. She is adorable and innocent, won't even hang out with a guy by herself. She says she doesn't realize she is doing it with any guys and gets angry when friends mention it. I'd love to have it stop being flirty and actually something to happen. I have a feeling you will say to next her, but not sure if i want to. Suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ice882

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I don't buy that she's being unintentionally flirty. She just loves the attention being flirty brings her and wants an excuse for her actions.
 
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jeffthechef

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i agree...no girl is unintentionally flirty...
but some girls are always intentionally friendly, and every guy misinterprets it as flirty because it's in every man's DNA..(it really is heh)

so the point>>>>it doesn't matter

who cares if she's being friendly or flirty..here's what you do..or what i would do

get her number if you don't have it already...
then, call her and set something up for a weekend..don't ask, tell her you're doing something and it'd be fun if she came along/she should come along...then pause
she'll say, "sure, it sounds great!" or "let me check to see (if i have time/i have a ride/etc...and she actually checks and tells you she's free)" these are the two responses you want to hear

or she'll say "let me think about it and call you back" or "i dont really like (insert suggestion here)" or "maybe" or if you're lucky, LUCKY, LUCKY...she'll say "no." or "sorry but i'll pass"...a direct girl, my favorite

or she'll say "i don't like (insert your suggestion)...how about we do this instead?" i read someone worth reading on SS say that you shouldn't let a girl change the activity within the first two months or first 3-4 outings because it's a power thing...but he was writing for older people..not high school kids...so if she has a legitimate reason, then you should change activities..but if it's some bull**** AND you have confidence..say "well maybe we can do that next time i'm free...i'll get back to you later..bye"

I say confidence because Pook, i''m pretty sure..once said..
"Confidence is a refined sense/form of patience"...so you'll need confidence/patience
 
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