"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jakeg123

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So I know a girl that is always unintentionally flirty. Flirts with many guys, tends to lead them on by accident. Me being one of those guys a while back. She will talk to them, flirt a bit, then move on. She is adorable and innocent, won't even hang out with a guy by herself. She says she doesn't realize she is doing it with any guys and gets angry when friends mention it. I'd love to have it stop being flirty and actually something to happen. I have a feeling you will say to next her, but not sure if i want to. Suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ice882

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I don't buy that she's being unintentionally flirty. She just loves the attention being flirty brings her and wants an excuse for her actions.
 
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jeffthechef

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i agree...no girl is unintentionally flirty...
but some girls are always intentionally friendly, and every guy misinterprets it as flirty because it's in every man's DNA..(it really is heh)

so the point>>>>it doesn't matter

who cares if she's being friendly or flirty..here's what you do..or what i would do

get her number if you don't have it already...
then, call her and set something up for a weekend..don't ask, tell her you're doing something and it'd be fun if she came along/she should come along...then pause
she'll say, "sure, it sounds great!" or "let me check to see (if i have time/i have a ride/etc...and she actually checks and tells you she's free)" these are the two responses you want to hear

or she'll say "let me think about it and call you back" or "i dont really like (insert suggestion here)" or "maybe" or if you're lucky, LUCKY, LUCKY...she'll say "no." or "sorry but i'll pass"...a direct girl, my favorite

or she'll say "i don't like (insert your suggestion)...how about we do this instead?" i read someone worth reading on SS say that you shouldn't let a girl change the activity within the first two months or first 3-4 outings because it's a power thing...but he was writing for older people..not high school kids...so if she has a legitimate reason, then you should change activities..but if it's some bull**** AND you have confidence..say "well maybe we can do that next time i'm free...i'll get back to you later..bye"

I say confidence because Pook, i''m pretty sure..once said..
"Confidence is a refined sense/form of patience"...so you'll need confidence/patience
 
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