Quite awhile ago while I was surfing this board, I found a thread that contained a link to a very extensive and thorough article on flirting. I think the site might have been some college psychology thing or something, but I can't remember for sure... And I can't find the thread with the link. I know it's a long shot, but does anyone know of this article, and if so, can you post a link?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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stormwriter
Senior Don Juan
I just did a search on Yahoo, and it came up with this site. Actually a pretty good site, with what appears to be some good information:
http://acmelove.com/flirting/natural-flirts.php
http://acmelove.com/flirting/natural-flirts.php
I found it... If anyone is interested, it's http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
just skimmed through the link, a pretty good link too...Originally posted by Zoso
I found it... If anyone is interested, it's http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
I'd advise yall to read up on it.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just read through this article. So basically it's true that women control men most of the time, and there's no way of telling whether or not they are interested in you. Until they finally blow you off, of course. It's kind of disturbing to think that men are always the ones who are made into fools, while women can just sit back in delight and enjoy the power they have over us.Originally posted by stormwriter
I just did a search on Yahoo, and it came up with this site. Actually a pretty good site, with what appears to be some good information:
http://acmelove.com/flirting/natural-flirts.php
I must say, it's also tough from the article to distinguish whether the women responded negatively only when the men talked too much, or when after ten minutes, they decided that they didn't find them attractive. I wish the author would have made these points clearer. Oh well...