"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flirting With Girls

antidonjuan

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Now I'm fairly good at flirting with girls, I usually make fun of them and tease them and they enjoy my teasing. But I don't know if this is good for the long run. I just don't wanna do tease tease tease all the time. Should I compliment them once in a while? More flirting techniques needed here
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BlakeW5

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Teasing is good, but too much for too long and you'll become the fun/humorous guy she wants to be friends with. Eventually you have to show a little sexual interest in her.
 

antidonjuan

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yes, I kino her on the arms, I am goin to touch her in a MORE sexual way and see how it goes. But aside from touching and teasing, what else?
 

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Really, I think all flirting is teasing in one form or the other. Just don't wear one form out. Try playing little games with her out of the blue, they can be as dumb as throwing something at her and pointing at someone else ("he did it"). Be creative, as long as you're having fun with it, she'll catch on that you're flirting with her. That's the fun thing about flirting, there are no real rules, and you can use anything as long as your attitude matches.

There's nothing wrong with compliments though. Too many guys get on these sites, read the material, and then draw the conclusion that compliments are fatal mistakes. Showering a female in compliments to win her over is fatal. A few sincere compliments here and there WILL help.
 

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EYE CONTACT

When joking around with her make good eye contact and hold it a little longer than you should. Eye contact when your both enjoying a good laugh creates a stronger connection and can make that powerful sexual tension.

Showing your funny side and confidence to hold eye contact is a winning combination with any girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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antidonjuan

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thanx, should I gave these girls a few compliments once in a while? And when I lock in eye contact with a girl, I usually smile or laugh, should I continue doing this?
 

john paul

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Be really careful giving girls compliments but yea youve got the right idea. You just dont want to be doing it every day or it wont be speical to her when you do give her a compliment, she will just see it as kissing her ass
 
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