"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flirting With Girls

antidonjuan

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Now I'm fairly good at flirting with girls, I usually make fun of them and tease them and they enjoy my teasing. But I don't know if this is good for the long run. I just don't wanna do tease tease tease all the time. Should I compliment them once in a while? More flirting techniques needed here
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BlakeW5

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Teasing is good, but too much for too long and you'll become the fun/humorous guy she wants to be friends with. Eventually you have to show a little sexual interest in her.
 

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yes, I kino her on the arms, I am goin to touch her in a MORE sexual way and see how it goes. But aside from touching and teasing, what else?
 

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Really, I think all flirting is teasing in one form or the other. Just don't wear one form out. Try playing little games with her out of the blue, they can be as dumb as throwing something at her and pointing at someone else ("he did it"). Be creative, as long as you're having fun with it, she'll catch on that you're flirting with her. That's the fun thing about flirting, there are no real rules, and you can use anything as long as your attitude matches.

There's nothing wrong with compliments though. Too many guys get on these sites, read the material, and then draw the conclusion that compliments are fatal mistakes. Showering a female in compliments to win her over is fatal. A few sincere compliments here and there WILL help.
 

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EYE CONTACT

When joking around with her make good eye contact and hold it a little longer than you should. Eye contact when your both enjoying a good laugh creates a stronger connection and can make that powerful sexual tension.

Showing your funny side and confidence to hold eye contact is a winning combination with any girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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antidonjuan

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thanx, should I gave these girls a few compliments once in a while? And when I lock in eye contact with a girl, I usually smile or laugh, should I continue doing this?
 

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Be really careful giving girls compliments but yea youve got the right idea. You just dont want to be doing it every day or it wont be speical to her when you do give her a compliment, she will just see it as kissing her ass
 
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