Flirting tips

[Stringz]

Flirting tips

Guys,

A simple, but decent summary I found on the web. If you like to follow a point for point format, this will help. I wonder if it's too basic though, but what I like about it is that it doesn't get too analytical about how and who you should be and what you should be thinking, just makes you think: "Just do it. Is it that straightforward? I can do that".

 

[stalluproar]

Every time I read something from Match.com, it is written in Wuss format. I agree with the points, but not how they explain it.

 

[rsxy]

"6. Ooze with interest
Act as if he or she were the most important person in your world and nothing else matters at the moment. Ooze with the allure of your undivided attention, fascination, and interest in just them. "There is nothing sexier or more complimentary than someone who flirts entranced with me and thinks I hung the moon." "

I cant say that I agree with that part. Acting like you "think the girl hung the moon" is probably not the best approach unless your goal is to either A) freak her out or B) let her know she can walk all over you.

Just my $0.02

 

[Diaoz]

Being interested in things about her is good.

Just find the balance.


Anyway, I think they're just talking about flirting there.
FLIRTING=AFC anyway

 

[PeeGee]

It's true -- I flirted with a girl for months in my AFC days. It was just something that she did just for ****s and giggles. Like "just in case you wanted to leave me a love note" -- the context was that she was changing emails etc.

And I never did send her anything construable as a love note either, so even to this day I had no idea what she was babbling about.

Ah, to be AFC again

 

[So Many Ways]

Originally posted by Diaoz

FLIRTING=AFC anyway

Are you kidding? Flirting is a basic skill that's necessary for pulling chicks.

I agree with the article except for point 6, which seems to advocate putting the woman on a pedestal.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by So Many Ways
Are you kidding? Flirting is a basic skill that's necessary for pulling chicks.

I agree. Without flirting, you're going to find it very difficult showing or even raising interest.

As for the tips. I agree with all except point 6 too.