"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flipping the tables through (perceived) indifference?

European-DJ

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Indifference is often recommended when a plate of ours is starting to loose interest and we want to “flip the tables”. However, I am very curious to hear some personal experiences and cases in which this actually worked. How long had you been seeing each other? What was the background? How did you go about the indifference, etc etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Indifference is often recommended when a plate of ours is starting to loose interest and we want to “flip the tables”. However, I am very curious to hear some personal experiences and cases in which this actually worked. How long had you been seeing each other? What was the background? How did you go about the indifference, etc etc.
Youd have true indifference if your bonded to another lady instead.
 

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I always give people a taste of their own medicine if they treat me with disrespect or ignore my existence.
I don't give a f*ck who they are. If I get 2 red flags in a row, it's payback time!

By the way I wouldn't recommend flipping the tables or cold paybacks unless you're ready to discard that individual.
But I personally learned the hard way that disrespectful people are 100% toxic to your life.
There's no reason to keep them around.
 
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