"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flipping the tables through (perceived) indifference?

European-DJ

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Indifference is often recommended when a plate of ours is starting to loose interest and we want to “flip the tables”. However, I am very curious to hear some personal experiences and cases in which this actually worked. How long had you been seeing each other? What was the background? How did you go about the indifference, etc etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Indifference is often recommended when a plate of ours is starting to loose interest and we want to “flip the tables”. However, I am very curious to hear some personal experiences and cases in which this actually worked. How long had you been seeing each other? What was the background? How did you go about the indifference, etc etc.
Youd have true indifference if your bonded to another lady instead.
 

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I always give people a taste of their own medicine if they treat me with disrespect or ignore my existence.
I don't give a f*ck who they are. If I get 2 red flags in a row, it's payback time!

By the way I wouldn't recommend flipping the tables or cold paybacks unless you're ready to discard that individual.
But I personally learned the hard way that disrespectful people are 100% toxic to your life.
There's no reason to keep them around.
 
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