"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr.Suave

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Saw some pictures of my GF in facebook today with a guy. Their really close to each other(shoulders overlapping) and one of the pictures is the guys profile picture which usually couples used as profile pictures in facebook.

She called later that day and initiated contact asking what perfume should she get to gift for christmas party for a guy. Ofcourse I felt jelous and made a comment about the pictures through a joke then I ended up teasing her (not associated with the picture) and her hanging the phone.

Now I pm her in facebook if theres something I should be jelous of? I didnt point out the picture. I ended up getting vague answers and showing me that she was pissed rather by me. How should I react now?


Knew this was a **** test and wanted to make me jelous of but I failed when I knew my friends GF has another man. So I ended up asking her if I should be jelous . But apart of me says why take picture like a couple and he use it as profile picture while theyre not? im really pissed right nowthat I cant sleep but I dont know if I should br.

So how should I respond ?

Edit: shes from a different school and I dont know anyone in there so I totally dont know whats happening inside.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Suave

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Did you ever think that maybe the perfume is for you, silly? Maybe she was trying to find out what YOU like. If she is still your GF I don't think she would be so forward as in posting a pic with the guy she is dating. The guy on FB is just a friend. They usually wait a while to post pics of the guy they're dating.
 

LearningSlowly

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The guy is probably in the friendzone and you just need to remain a secure man.

Either that or she wants him, maybe they've kissed. If that's true, don't do anything until she tells you it happened. If its true and they like each other, just kill your emotions for a few days. Be cold and drop her like she's a rotten piece of meat.

You probably shouldn't worry though
 
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