"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Saw some pictures of my GF in facebook today with a guy. Their really close to each other(shoulders overlapping) and one of the pictures is the guys profile picture which usually couples used as profile pictures in facebook.

She called later that day and initiated contact asking what perfume should she get to gift for christmas party for a guy. Ofcourse I felt jelous and made a comment about the pictures through a joke then I ended up teasing her (not associated with the picture) and her hanging the phone.

Now I pm her in facebook if theres something I should be jelous of? I didnt point out the picture. I ended up getting vague answers and showing me that she was pissed rather by me. How should I react now?


Knew this was a **** test and wanted to make me jelous of but I failed when I knew my friends GF has another man. So I ended up asking her if I should be jelous . But apart of me says why take picture like a couple and he use it as profile picture while theyre not? im really pissed right nowthat I cant sleep but I dont know if I should br.

So how should I respond ?

Edit: shes from a different school and I dont know anyone in there so I totally dont know whats happening inside.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Did you ever think that maybe the perfume is for you, silly? Maybe she was trying to find out what YOU like. If she is still your GF I don't think she would be so forward as in posting a pic with the guy she is dating. The guy on FB is just a friend. They usually wait a while to post pics of the guy they're dating.
 
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The guy is probably in the friendzone and you just need to remain a secure man.

Either that or she wants him, maybe they've kissed. If that's true, don't do anything until she tells you it happened. If its true and they like each other, just kill your emotions for a few days. Be cold and drop her like she's a rotten piece of meat.

You probably shouldn't worry though
 
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