"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mr.Suave

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Saw some pictures of my GF in facebook today with a guy. Their really close to each other(shoulders overlapping) and one of the pictures is the guys profile picture which usually couples used as profile pictures in facebook.

She called later that day and initiated contact asking what perfume should she get to gift for christmas party for a guy. Ofcourse I felt jelous and made a comment about the pictures through a joke then I ended up teasing her (not associated with the picture) and her hanging the phone.

Now I pm her in facebook if theres something I should be jelous of? I didnt point out the picture. I ended up getting vague answers and showing me that she was pissed rather by me. How should I react now?


Knew this was a **** test and wanted to make me jelous of but I failed when I knew my friends GF has another man. So I ended up asking her if I should be jelous . But apart of me says why take picture like a couple and he use it as profile picture while theyre not? im really pissed right nowthat I cant sleep but I dont know if I should br.

So how should I respond ?

Edit: shes from a different school and I dont know anyone in there so I totally dont know whats happening inside.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Suave

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Did you ever think that maybe the perfume is for you, silly? Maybe she was trying to find out what YOU like. If she is still your GF I don't think she would be so forward as in posting a pic with the guy she is dating. The guy on FB is just a friend. They usually wait a while to post pics of the guy they're dating.
 

LearningSlowly

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The guy is probably in the friendzone and you just need to remain a secure man.

Either that or she wants him, maybe they've kissed. If that's true, don't do anything until she tells you it happened. If its true and they like each other, just kill your emotions for a few days. Be cold and drop her like she's a rotten piece of meat.

You probably shouldn't worry though
 
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