Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Obviously, you have never worked on houses before. Any vinyl from the mid-80's and earlier should be expected to contain asbestos.The vinyl that was down had asbestos under it, which was my first major surprise.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Obviously, you have never worked on houses before. Any vinyl from the mid-80's and earlier should be expected to contain asbestos.The vinyl that was down had asbestos under it, which was my first major surprise.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Awesome. Go away now.Obviously, you have never worked on houses before. Any vinyl from the mid-80's and earlier should be expected to contain asbestos.
Takes a real genius to spend your rich daddy's money, doesn't it? That's why girls are not impressed.Awesome. Go away now.
And your blocked.Takes a real genius to spend your rich daddy's money, doesn't it? That's why girls are not impressed.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Me too. Only I didn't have the rich daddy to fund my adventures. I did it entirely with other peoples' money, and made a nice fee for my efforts. I did that at the age of 21, too...true story. That's why I am not impressed with people who spend their rich parent's money and call themselves a genius for it.I flipped a house once. It was a short career.
Can you explain the numbers on a property you paid cash for that paid you back in 2 years?3. I have properties that I have paid cash for that have paid back to me in rental income the purchase price in less than 2 years. I have properties with massive cash flows that required nothing down at all. Those sorts of terms create much higher ROI than the stock market but in order to get those kinds of returns you have to know what to buy, where to buy, and how to buy. You cannot accomplish that except in markets that meet very tight criteria. So I research my markets thoroughly and know what I aim to accomplish before I invest.
Yes. I operate in small towns where people still need housing but there isn't the hot real estate market. This is why in other threads you'll see me discuss that appreciation is gravy. I have houses that I've owned for a decade that haven't appreciated substantially at all, but that throw off income. Here are two examples of the numbers I see:Can you explain the numbers on a property you paid cash for that paid you back in 2 years?
$45,000 purchase price with $1,875/month income? Or something similar?
You make money through volume. I have dozens of houses like the two above, some do not create the massive returns that these do, and cost a bit more, but volume is how you create income.My brother used to work at a bank and told me that practically nobody made profit on rental houses.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm pretty sure that you will ALWAYS make a better ROI by flipping than renting. It's also a lot more work.When I sought advice " should I purchase more?" From a wealthy family friend, who has always owned apartment buildings in the SF Bay area, he said "it's like Monopoly, in order to win, you need to keep collecting properties"
Right now is not a good time to consider investing to hold for rental UNLESS you find a steal. Right now is a great time to buy low, fix and flip for profit. Wait till the housing market crashes again, it always does.
From what I have been able to ascertain, if you want to be able to live off rental income, you have to have a fairly large portfolio. Lots of houses or an apartment building (s)
People in Texas purchase properties that have foundation issues, at deeply discounted prices, and then rent them at, or close to, market rental prices.
You can't resell a property with a foundation issue easily, but you can hold it and clear $1300 a month in income until it is paid off. Then you clear $1500, or more.
Lots of ways to make a buck
I'm on other forums that are for real estate.I do this for a living. You can make good money if you have several multi-family houses. The key is MULTI-FAMILY. SFR you'll get creamed as soon as the economy turns. It also helps if you can buy for cash and not carry a mortgage. Example, I have about 16 multi-families with 2 - 4 units in each bringing in anywhere from 650 - 850 a month gross. Let's average that to 750 x that by 2 units = 1500 per month x that by 16 = 24000 a month gross. When you get bigger, you may need a PM, that will eat in about 8%. All work, I supply the materials and only pay for the labor. I pay water, insurance and taxes. Tenant pays electricity and rent. You need the volume to hold you over with vacancies, which are less than 5% across my portfolio. I am also in major cities, so that helps as well. Do not forget, you also have 27.5 years for depreciation. So, if you have 2,000,000 in real estate, you'll be receiving a 73k yearly tax deduction. Sometimes, I have a loser house, so I flip it, but it is rare. This is a hard business. It takes time, patience, balls of steel and patience. Many do not show a profit due to the depreciation on the tax return. Or, they have a high mortgage rate, they do not know how to manage money and expenses, etc. It's not as easy as what you see on TV. Very stressful, but it does bring in a decent income once you stabilize the buildings. You also have turn-over repairs, which are around 500 bucks. I try to mitigate that with the security deposit.
Flipping is easy in a hot market. Landlording is hard in every market. But, you need volume. At least 10 units, not buildings, units to have a nice income. Then parlay that into other units. I try to stick to 2 - 4 unit buildings, as they are less headaches and easier to acquire. I had a few apartment complexes, and they were a money pit and more expensive.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
But ROI with flipping is still much better.Multi-family units lower the cost per unit, which makes them more profitable as rentals. Lower-priced units return a much higher percentage of their value in rent. But then you start to become a slum lord at some point, if that value drops too low. My family has had more than one renter stay for 15+ years, and pay in rent over that time more than enough to purchase the home; like BeExcellent said, those were happy long-term renters. A well-maintained rental trailer, with a good working-class poor type of tenant, is the best rental in my area. My family also tends to forgive other things that other places don't, like pets and past felony convictions. One of our best renters did a jail term for shooting a dude in a Chicago gang fight. He's actually a really nice guy, all he does is work at his crappy job. And no place else is going to rent to him, so he's not going to move.
No choice when you have no tenant... even in the commercial real estate... you can own a building and the building has a value... if you have no office/compagnies as tenants... than you have a pill of rock....But ROI with flipping is still much better.
Even large multibillion dollar firms get their best profits from flips.
Wrong.No choice when you have no tenant... even in the commercial real estate... you can own a building and the building has a value... if you have no office/compagnies as tenants... than you have a pill of rock....
Pill of rock until you flip and sell it to another. At which point, you do something to increase its value (like the developper owning the condos in the building he built for a 5 years terms)
House flipping is like Stocks or Corporate Sales.... If you in a booming market... you will get something.
However, its when the market crash that you see who really had pants on (Warren Buffet quotes)... Are you clothed or Naked underneath your business ''success and attributes''.
I don't know much about flipping but I know alot about investments.
You need to study your market, you need to invest and check spending vs returns, you need to see the added value it has on the market (location, maintenance, tenants etc..)you need to hold or sell at the ''good time''...
Rental remains the most ''long term'' effective strategies since you have a ''residual income''.... However... it can become a nightmare too...
The biggest issue I see with people who own Rental Properties = Tenants (the bad ones... and you always running after the check) and property maintenance.
I remember an article about 'what not to do in the rental business'.... and it was actually flipping the rental units... spending ALOT of money to repair,upgrade the place in hope rising the rental/tenant monthly rental fees.... well that didn't work well for the owners and they lost everything.
You shouldn't buy a rental property (with a mortgage likely) than pay 50 000$ in repairs.. when you have no tenants or people to sell it to... with the Hopes someone will buy you. (its a business risk that is costly...)....
One issue with RealEstate (any kinds)... its that its a immobile asset (you can't sell unless you have a buyer and that can take alot of time... unlike stock where you click and its basically sold)
So that's why flipping works in good market... cause the buyers exists (any kind).
Anyway... one day when I have build enough a stock/investment/mutualfund/ETF portfolio... i'll go in the multi-residential rental (2-3 units and maybe more) but definitely will have someone to manage it(turn my family in slave).
In the Real Estate... Rent is like having a Pension Fund that will send you money no matter the conditions... quite valuable when in a sizeable situation that makes a difference (like rent in gross of around 20 000$ +... I am being conservative.... at 50 000$ yearly gross you should be fine).... but it means Time, Mortage, Tenants management
I'm on other forums that are for real estate.
Everything I've ever seen tells me that it always makes sense to finance purchases.
If you could buy 1 multifamily in cash, why not use that same amount of cash to buy 5 that are financed?
Even with the mortgage payment, it has always come out to a better ROI every time I've looked at this.
Do you not agree with this?
Multi-family units lower the cost per unit, which makes them more profitable as rentals. Lower-priced units return a much higher percentage of their value in rent. But then you start to become a slum lord at some point, if that value drops too low. My family has had more than one renter stay for 15+ years, and pay in rent over that time more than enough to purchase the home; like BeExcellent said, those were happy long-term renters. A well-maintained rental trailer, with a good working-class poor type of tenant, is the best rental in my area. My family also tends to forgive other things that other places don't, like pets and past felony convictions. One of our best renters did a jail term for shooting a dude in a Chicago gang fight. He's actually a really nice guy, all he does is work at his crappy job. And no place else is going to rent to him, so he's not going to move.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.