"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flip-Flop Chick?

Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, I'll try to make this as thorough as possible, though I don't have much time to type. However, I can of course add detail later. I come here to ask this advice because I don't know anyone who is on my level with pulling chicks to ask this. Ok, so here I go: So there's a girl I've been on lately who's shown a lot of interest in me, introduced me to her fam, shows a great desire to hang with me (and we have), etc. etc. She's into me, definitely. (We met through a religious organization, so jumping straight to the sex wouldnt be advisable in this case, however, if I wanted to take it, I could. We've talked about it.). This hasn't been very long though. So, last night, out of nowhere, she says that she has been in an on/off relationship with some other guy and still is and she's trying to figure out what to do really. She was with him for two years, but they have been "on/off" since around the time her and I first met.

My question is how do i read this??? I immediately told her that she cant "have her cake and eat it too" and if she doesn't do what she has to do in order to make a real decision, I will have to do what I have to do (stop talking to her, be on other chicks with her knowing, etc.). But idk if she's genuinely confused or just looking for some attention or what. How do I read that and what should be my next move?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eaglez1177

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Your next move should be based off of what YOU are looking for. Are you looking for a relationship, or just a casual f buddy?
 

Bigtrucker2008

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Out of this one in particular, under the circumstances of how we met, it was orginally a relationship. But I am in no way "in love" with her or anything at this point and have no obligations. Though im not in a "on/off" relationship with anyone, as she is, I'm still spinning my plates.
 

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You didn't answer the question. Reread the replay and answer what is it thag you want with her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tiguere

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Then she isn't available right now for a relationship. Her emotional state is unhealthy.
 
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