Bigtrucker2008
Don Juan
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Ok, I'll try to make this as thorough as possible, though I don't have much time to type. However, I can of course add detail later. I come here to ask this advice because I don't know anyone who is on my level with pulling chicks to ask this. Ok, so here I go: So there's a girl I've been on lately who's shown a lot of interest in me, introduced me to her fam, shows a great desire to hang with me (and we have), etc. etc. She's into me, definitely. (We met through a religious organization, so jumping straight to the sex wouldnt be advisable in this case, however, if I wanted to take it, I could. We've talked about it.). This hasn't been very long though. So, last night, out of nowhere, she says that she has been in an on/off relationship with some other guy and still is and she's trying to figure out what to do really. She was with him for two years, but they have been "on/off" since around the time her and I first met.
My question is how do i read this??? I immediately told her that she cant "have her cake and eat it too" and if she doesn't do what she has to do in order to make a real decision, I will have to do what I have to do (stop talking to her, be on other chicks with her knowing, etc.). But idk if she's genuinely confused or just looking for some attention or what. How do I read that and what should be my next move?
My question is how do i read this??? I immediately told her that she cant "have her cake and eat it too" and if she doesn't do what she has to do in order to make a real decision, I will have to do what I have to do (stop talking to her, be on other chicks with her knowing, etc.). But idk if she's genuinely confused or just looking for some attention or what. How do I read that and what should be my next move?