"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Flexing after workout.. help

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I pry flex my muscles about 5 times a day..

Like, I will flex my bicep's in a curling motion 30 times each time for a example. And, I will do it hard.

I thought it helps to get blood to them to make them get bigger faster.

Is this a good idea or a bad idea?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just my opinion: It probably helps to do this to get familiar with your muscles and establish a nice mind muscle connection.
Many bodybuilders like to flex their muscles in the mirrors during workouts to aqaint them with the motion and get that nice stretch. As to doing it throughout the day.. I'm guessing it would have little affect on actually noticable results but may help you control your muscle movements better.
 

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Flexing muscles idea - good and bad.
Good - you see what you are making.
Bad - you fatigue them.
 

Lt dan

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flesing immediately after your workout will push out some lactic acid
 

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So, flexing during the day like I do will not do anything..

Even help with blood flow?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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