"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Flexing after workout.. help

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I pry flex my muscles about 5 times a day..

Like, I will flex my bicep's in a curling motion 30 times each time for a example. And, I will do it hard.

I thought it helps to get blood to them to make them get bigger faster.

Is this a good idea or a bad idea?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just my opinion: It probably helps to do this to get familiar with your muscles and establish a nice mind muscle connection.
Many bodybuilders like to flex their muscles in the mirrors during workouts to aqaint them with the motion and get that nice stretch. As to doing it throughout the day.. I'm guessing it would have little affect on actually noticable results but may help you control your muscle movements better.
 

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Flexing muscles idea - good and bad.
Good - you see what you are making.
Bad - you fatigue them.
 

Lt dan

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flesing immediately after your workout will push out some lactic acid
 

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So, flexing during the day like I do will not do anything..

Even help with blood flow?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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