So yea theres this girl I flirt with hard. But she messes with my head and Im tired of the BS. I was planning on just flat out asking her to fvck. Truthfully, I want her pvssy but I have more important things to me than her snatch lol. If I lose this it doesn't matter. I just wanted to know if you guys would do this or rather take a different route?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Flat out asking "do you wanna fvck?"
- Thread starter Chrom3y
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kids these days... Why not start with a nice kiss?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDoQFcQEpOQ
There's a scientific paper floating around about guys asking random girls on college campus if they want to fvck, and the success rate is ~6.2%. Decent enough odd.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDoQFcQEpOQ
There's a scientific paper floating around about guys asking random girls on college campus if they want to fvck, and the success rate is ~6.2%. Decent enough odd.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
dont ask for permission for such a thing...
im not saying to rape her...
im saying build attraction, be unresponsive to her tests, flirt with other girls in front of her, dont answer her phone calls or call her much.... reclaim your sanity first....
if you get her in a room and its geting heavy - dont say lets **** or can we... just do it....
im not saying to rape her...
im saying build attraction, be unresponsive to her tests, flirt with other girls in front of her, dont answer her phone calls or call her much.... reclaim your sanity first....
if you get her in a room and its geting heavy - dont say lets **** or can we... just do it....
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
well then cut contact for a few weeks.... that will increase your chances much more than asking...
you dont ever ask for sex because it #1 is giving her no challenge. #2 putting her in the position of domiination (and you the submissive who will do as told) #3 makes her 'anti slut shield' come up.... unless shes a slvt AND completely into you - you have little chance.
you dont ever ask for sex because it #1 is giving her no challenge. #2 putting her in the position of domiination (and you the submissive who will do as told) #3 makes her 'anti slut shield' come up.... unless shes a slvt AND completely into you - you have little chance.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Igetit!
Moderator
You didn't really give a lot of detail here. What do you mean by "flirt hard"?Chrom3y said:So yea theres this girl I flirt with hard.
What exactly do you say to her,and how does she respond?
She messes with you? Like what...teasing you? Leading you on? What is it she does that you consider her "messing with your head"?Chrom3y said:But she messes with my head and Im tired of the BS. I was planning on just flat out asking her to fvck.
If what you say about her "messing with your head" is true,that means she sensed a "weakness" on your part. More than likely,she gave you a test that you failed along the way. Then when that one test showed her a weakness,she exploited it until it grew into this thing you're dealing with now.
Take a different route? Well,if the route you're currently on has led you to a place with her that you DON'T WANT TO BE in,then yeah,change routes.Chrom3y said:I just wanted to know if you guys would do this or rather take a different route?
I take it this is a girl you have somewhat of a history with,and not one who you've just recently met. Since yousort of know her,I wouldn't flat out ask her if she wants to....well,you know.
Maybe if you give a little more detail about how you even arrive at this point with her,we could determine where you went wrong,how to get on the right track,and how to NOT make the same mistake again in the future.
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