So yea theres this girl I flirt with hard. But she messes with my head and Im tired of the BS. I was planning on just flat out asking her to fvck. Truthfully, I want her pvssy but I have more important things to me than her snatch lol. If I lose this it doesn't matter. I just wanted to know if you guys would do this or rather take a different route?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Flat out asking "do you wanna fvck?"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kids these days... Why not start with a nice kiss?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDoQFcQEpOQ
There's a scientific paper floating around about guys asking random girls on college campus if they want to fvck, and the success rate is ~6.2%. Decent enough odd.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDoQFcQEpOQ
There's a scientific paper floating around about guys asking random girls on college campus if they want to fvck, and the success rate is ~6.2%. Decent enough odd.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
dont ask for permission for such a thing...
im not saying to rape her...
im saying build attraction, be unresponsive to her tests, flirt with other girls in front of her, dont answer her phone calls or call her much.... reclaim your sanity first....
if you get her in a room and its geting heavy - dont say lets **** or can we... just do it....
im not saying to rape her...
im saying build attraction, be unresponsive to her tests, flirt with other girls in front of her, dont answer her phone calls or call her much.... reclaim your sanity first....
if you get her in a room and its geting heavy - dont say lets **** or can we... just do it....
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
well then cut contact for a few weeks.... that will increase your chances much more than asking...
you dont ever ask for sex because it #1 is giving her no challenge. #2 putting her in the position of domiination (and you the submissive who will do as told) #3 makes her 'anti slut shield' come up.... unless shes a slvt AND completely into you - you have little chance.
you dont ever ask for sex because it #1 is giving her no challenge. #2 putting her in the position of domiination (and you the submissive who will do as told) #3 makes her 'anti slut shield' come up.... unless shes a slvt AND completely into you - you have little chance.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You didn't really give a lot of detail here. What do you mean by "flirt hard"?Chrom3y said:So yea theres this girl I flirt with hard.
What exactly do you say to her,and how does she respond?
She messes with you? Like what...teasing you? Leading you on? What is it she does that you consider her "messing with your head"?Chrom3y said:But she messes with my head and Im tired of the BS. I was planning on just flat out asking her to fvck.
If what you say about her "messing with your head" is true,that means she sensed a "weakness" on your part. More than likely,she gave you a test that you failed along the way. Then when that one test showed her a weakness,she exploited it until it grew into this thing you're dealing with now.
Take a different route? Well,if the route you're currently on has led you to a place with her that you DON'T WANT TO BE in,then yeah,change routes.Chrom3y said:I just wanted to know if you guys would do this or rather take a different route?
I take it this is a girl you have somewhat of a history with,and not one who you've just recently met. Since yousort of know her,I wouldn't flat out ask her if she wants to....well,you know.
Maybe if you give a little more detail about how you even arrive at this point with her,we could determine where you went wrong,how to get on the right track,and how to NOT make the same mistake again in the future.
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