“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Flaky after asking out

TheGambino

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What do u guys text after getting a number from a girl u only introduced yourself too and had a good convo for 5mins.

And how u guys act if this partic girl tells you shes busy and can't go out any soon within the next days (prob flaking coz texting less and responsing late) whats best to say and when do you guys next
 

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but do you text something back like ok i see your away these days, well let me know when your off any soon. or just dont respond and next
 

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If you really feel the urge to text her, send her something like: It was nice meeting you (maybe insert something funny here that relates to the convo you had) don't bother asking a question, drop a smiley face then leave it at that." If she replies, don't reply till like the next day or a couple hours after, then CALL her, But from the sounds of it, she's gone with the wind.
 

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In most of these cases she's in another castle. Spinning plates will alleviate this.

Case closed. Nothing to see here.
 

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I'd probably write back something she's not expecting, like "Sounds good."

She might be wondering why her not being able to meet you for a few days is a good thing. Ignore any messages she sends unless she's trying to set up a meet.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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