"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flaky after asking out

TheGambino

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What do u guys text after getting a number from a girl u only introduced yourself too and had a good convo for 5mins.

And how u guys act if this partic girl tells you shes busy and can't go out any soon within the next days (prob flaking coz texting less and responsing late) whats best to say and when do you guys next
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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but do you text something back like ok i see your away these days, well let me know when your off any soon. or just dont respond and next
 

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If you really feel the urge to text her, send her something like: It was nice meeting you (maybe insert something funny here that relates to the convo you had) don't bother asking a question, drop a smiley face then leave it at that." If she replies, don't reply till like the next day or a couple hours after, then CALL her, But from the sounds of it, she's gone with the wind.
 

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In most of these cases she's in another castle. Spinning plates will alleviate this.

Case closed. Nothing to see here.
 

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I'd probably write back something she's not expecting, like "Sounds good."

She might be wondering why her not being able to meet you for a few days is a good thing. Ignore any messages she sends unless she's trying to set up a meet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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