"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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flaking vs disinterest

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how do you distinguish between a girl who is flaking out on a date and one who isnt interested in you and makes excuses
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't put up with flaky women, so I couldn't answer this one. In my eyes, if a girl flakes, she's not interested or doesn't care enough to give you a heads up so you don't think she's flakying. Holly crap, I just confused myself.
 
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it's hard to tell. you are thinking to much. if there is any doubt in your mind that she is uninterested than next her.
so you find out later that she was, and she was just nervous. so what! you are busy w/ all your other girls, or you are happy w/ LTR w/ your HB9
 
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Doesn't flaking = disinterest? Either way you ain't with the girl so does it really matter?
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
Doesn't flaking = disinterest?
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ditto
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i mean flaking as in nervousness. i agree with the dukester. ill go by the 2 strike rule on this one, nervousness or not
 
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