"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Flaking on a girl?

LinkinParkROX

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I've got a date with a girl this thursday. She's leaving for the summer in like 3 weeks. I told her I needed to see her before she goes, so that gives me plenty of time before she leaves. Bearing this in mind, I thought I'd play with it a bit since I've got time. That being said, is it cool to flake on a girl? Maybe she'd want you more for it? Or is it against the DJ code or something. I mean something simple like "Sorry I'm busy, can't make it. " and stuff.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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doctorj

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it might backfire you know, and why would you play something like that...don't you hate it when women do that on you? (even if sometimes it's not on purpose)
 

Allurre

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Don't flake out on women man. That's weak. You should always leave a good lasting impression. What if this women happens to be the source to unlock a business opp in the future? or a potential FB?

Who knows?
 

Poonani Maker

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I flake on girls EVERY day. Fvck um.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cinamon

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I never give a second chance to anyone that flakes on me. When you commit to something, even if its just a date, you have to stay true to your word. Its the honourable way.
 
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