"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flaking on a girl?

LinkinParkROX

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I've got a date with a girl this thursday. She's leaving for the summer in like 3 weeks. I told her I needed to see her before she goes, so that gives me plenty of time before she leaves. Bearing this in mind, I thought I'd play with it a bit since I've got time. That being said, is it cool to flake on a girl? Maybe she'd want you more for it? Or is it against the DJ code or something. I mean something simple like "Sorry I'm busy, can't make it. " and stuff.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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doctorj

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it might backfire you know, and why would you play something like that...don't you hate it when women do that on you? (even if sometimes it's not on purpose)
 

Allurre

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Don't flake out on women man. That's weak. You should always leave a good lasting impression. What if this women happens to be the source to unlock a business opp in the future? or a potential FB?

Who knows?
 

Poonani Maker

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I flake on girls EVERY day. Fvck um.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cinamon

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I never give a second chance to anyone that flakes on me. When you commit to something, even if its just a date, you have to stay true to your word. Its the honourable way.
 
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