"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGambino

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talked to this girl today, invited her to drink something and had fun for 10 mins. Tried to DJ a church girl and it went pretty well. got her phone number this afternoon and texted her 3 hours later. She replies very slow and even ignored my last message.

She showed a LOT of interest when i saw her we had fun, i teased her and we had a great time, i felt she liked me. Tho she is flakey on text messaging..

not sure what to do, tho the dj tactics maybe too much for her since shes a church girl
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She can show a reasonable amount of interest, and then still flake out. Happens all the time. She may be curious about you and nothing more. Or maybe she just likes the attention. Maybe it's both. Maybe she's texting five or six guys right now.

All you can do is be cool, don't worry too much about 'tactics', set up a date or something you're going to that she can tag along with. If she flakes on you once or twice, you move on. Don't waste your precious time.
 

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Some people are actually busy, and dont need their phone glued to their face - they just check it now and again.
 

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Maybe she wanted to get you away from her.

Maybe she just wants your attention.

Maybe she needed an ego boost and already has a boyfriend.

This is why you always spin plates. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. A woman can fake interest very easily.
 
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