Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheGambino

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talked to this girl today, invited her to drink something and had fun for 10 mins. Tried to DJ a church girl and it went pretty well. got her phone number this afternoon and texted her 3 hours later. She replies very slow and even ignored my last message.

She showed a LOT of interest when i saw her we had fun, i teased her and we had a great time, i felt she liked me. Tho she is flakey on text messaging..

not sure what to do, tho the dj tactics maybe too much for her since shes a church girl
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrispyG

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She can show a reasonable amount of interest, and then still flake out. Happens all the time. She may be curious about you and nothing more. Or maybe she just likes the attention. Maybe it's both. Maybe she's texting five or six guys right now.

All you can do is be cool, don't worry too much about 'tactics', set up a date or something you're going to that she can tag along with. If she flakes on you once or twice, you move on. Don't waste your precious time.
 

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Some people are actually busy, and dont need their phone glued to their face - they just check it now and again.
 

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Maybe she wanted to get you away from her.

Maybe she just wants your attention.

Maybe she needed an ego boost and already has a boyfriend.

This is why you always spin plates. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. A woman can fake interest very easily.
 
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