Flakey, flakey

[Turncoat]

There's this chick whose flaking out on me despite the fact that I brought her flaking on me harsh on her last we spoke. I thought she'd change, but when i called to make plans, she said she may join me, she wasn't sure, so i told her to call me and confirm whether ot not she'll be joining me, either way i'm going. Well, she didn't call, neither to confirm, neither to decline.

Now, i have two choices:
1) Ignore her, never call again
2) Fix this problem

I'll go with 2. I'm gonna give her one last call and one last chance to fix her mistake. But how should i put it? Should i be harsh, like i said i was last time she flaked out, or should i keep it cool?

I don't want to lose this chick, she's special, although her flakey attitude does suck. I know she likes me, i know she's attracted, she just acts flakey because i think i hurt her ego when i'm harsh and she wants to show me attitude.

So, any suggestions? It'll be the last chance she gets, and a good fone call may change the way she thinks.

 

[MidnightResistance]

Don't call her.

Walk away

I'm having the same problem with this chick Im supposed to be seeing and frankly...she ain't worth the bother

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

i would call. REcently, i was in the same situation, i was supposed to call a chick the day of the date to confirm a time. She never answered. I took the advice from this board, and never called again i did leave a msg though. Maybe it was the right choice i dunno, She gave me alot of signs that she liked me, but she was an AW. Needless to say that was a few weeks ago, and i still think of her because i havent been out with any other chick. IT made me wonder if she was testing my effort to see if i would continue the pursuit or drop her quickly and save face(since we knew a few of each others friends)

 

[TACH]

How many times has she flaked? If its just once maybe call her, I probably wouldn't. If it's been more than once though, why bother? She shouldn't deserve your time if she keeps flaking on you.

NEXT!

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by Turncoat There's this chick whose flaking out on me despite the fact that I brought her flaking on me harsh on her last we spoke. I thought she'd change, but when i called to make plans, she said she may join me, she wasn't sure, so i told her to call me and confirm whether ot not she'll be joining me, either way i'm going. Well, she didn't call, neither to confirm, neither to decline.

Now, i have two choices:
1) Ignore her, never call again
2) Fix this problem

I'll go with 2. I'm gonna give her one last call and one last chance to fix her mistake. But how should i put it? Should i be harsh, like i said i was last time she flaked out, or should i keep it cool?

I don't want to lose this chick, she's special, although her flakey attitude does suck. I know she likes me, i know she's attracted, she just acts flakey because i think i hurt her ego when i'm harsh and she wants to show me attitude.

So, any suggestions? It'll be the last chance she gets, and a good fone call may change the way she thinks.

Telling someone to not do something may make them grow more defensive at you. It seems like she is trying to avoid going out with you, maybe she doesn't trust you. The next time you have a talk with her, don't invite her to anywhere, just talk and build a level a trust between the two of you.

 

[MidnightResistance]

3 Strikes and Out

that's the rule