"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flakes might be the best thing ever!

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I just had a hot girl flake on me in typical bytch fashion - i see right through every move of hers:

shes sweet and sounds caring, then an hour before we gonna meet up, she says "oh i forgot that my friend got tickets to a baseball game for me and him and i cant just not go" - typical playerette move, hot bytch who has too many options, FCUK THAT!!!


anyway, here is why i think flakes are the best thing ever........

I am sitting here at 12:45 and my plans just flaked on me, and I feel so encouraged to just go through my phone #s and call girl after girl after girl and just say "hey wassup lets chill" without a second thought, its like I almost feel more confident in "getting revenge" on the flaky girl by hooking up with another girl

anyone else experience this kinda mindset?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All the time it may not nesscariy be a revenge type deal but i believe in having options and when one bytch flakes i love to say NEXT and call a chick worth my time. My mindset is more or less ok Next fvck that bytch my time is valuable her loss not mine.
 
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alphamale (and anyone else),

usually i make double or triple plans in case of flakes, but this girl this time seemed like a SURE THING to wanna chill..........i mean we been talkin for a week now where everything in the convos is like "heyy lover, hey sexy, hey baby i missed u" on her end, AND we already hung out before and made out so the interest level on her part was there

so, i didnt make any other plans and because i was EXTRA counting on her, it screwed me over for today a lil bit..............so far i called 5 girls and all 5 are busy, good thing i got like 30 #s lol
 
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Right right well if worst comes to worst go out to social gatherin alone and find someone there. But yeah when bytchs flake it just makes me more determined to have a better time because i know she's a bytch missing out. And when or if she calls you back and says some shyt like "i'm sorry about the other night" you already know to not care and instead tell her about how great of a time you had without her.
 
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yup she imed me saying "this isnt my fault, if u dont wanna ever chill then k"

ignoring her forever :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it sucks when they flake....i always try to have a backup plan
 
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vegas_pimp said:
yup she imed me saying "this isnt my fault, if u dont wanna ever chill then k"

ignoring her forever :)
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I would ask her, 'Then who made plans with me despite the fact that you had a prior engagement, your evil twin?' Not her fault....I swear.
 
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