"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flakes...i cant stand these women, advice?

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boynamedsue said:
Met this girl who seemed to be extremly interested in me. She became friends with my buddys gf same day I met her. The next day they hung out this girl could not stop talking about me. We spoke couple days later but couldn't get a date bc I was going out of town. Following weeekend she couldn't bc her kids...
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....aaaaand that's where I stop reading. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I thought you had a 2 strike rule?

If there were any chance at all that she would hang with you I think it's pretty safe to say that now there isn't. You asked her out 3 times against your better judgement and never once did she counter offer or give you any sense that she would make it up to you, the last time she didn't even bother to respond.
 
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that was the 2nd strike... i deleted her number last nite.
Thank god im going to vegas in a week..i need a vacation from this slump.
 
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