Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The girl i'm going to prom with just canceled our get together at the mall.
Her excuse was that her dad was mad at her and stuff and she was grounded....she didn't make it clear which is even worse.

I mean wut kinda bullsh1t excuse is that?

But the funny thing is, I think i've finally been able to relax with her.
In my mind, she was kicked down a notch, and I feel good now.

should I say to her on monday though?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that actually may be a legit excuse. just be you on monday, and i'd see if she counteroffers for after she's not grounded anymore.
 

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thanks.
i don't know why, but it feels so good.
i had her on a pedestal earlier, but now, her value in my eyes has gone done so much :)
 

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but for me, a flake is a flake.
no matter what the reason.
i don't take in consideration that it might be legit.
 
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