"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flaked

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The girl i'm going to prom with just canceled our get together at the mall.
Her excuse was that her dad was mad at her and stuff and she was grounded....she didn't make it clear which is even worse.

I mean wut kinda bullsh1t excuse is that?

But the funny thing is, I think i've finally been able to relax with her.
In my mind, she was kicked down a notch, and I feel good now.

should I say to her on monday though?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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that actually may be a legit excuse. just be you on monday, and i'd see if she counteroffers for after she's not grounded anymore.
 

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thanks.
i don't know why, but it feels so good.
i had her on a pedestal earlier, but now, her value in my eyes has gone done so much :)
 

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but for me, a flake is a flake.
no matter what the reason.
i don't take in consideration that it might be legit.
 
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