Thought i would like this other girl better. Should I apologize and say I like to make it up to her and tell her I really like her? I know it's a bad idea to tell a chick you like her before banging her and against dj policy but I blew her off pretty bad... I don't think a simple hey Wyd text will suffice.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
flaked on her third date now she wont talk to me
- Thread starter captain55
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
There's no reason to tell her you like her, show her by actions (i.e: teasing her and banging)captain55 said:
Plan another date: ''Let's go to (insert cool place) so we can have fun going (cool activity) at this time''
Done deal.
Also to be clear I wasn't.a dumbass I didn't ignore a girl with high IL for no reason. She was playing the game with me...saturday I sent her a very nice text complimenting her and she ignored it until the next day. I just felt like giving her a taste of her own medicine...was hoping she would get the message I don't like being ignored but.she's got an ego obviously and is taking my behavior as rejection I think. I think she saw my profile being active on tinder too....she even asked me if I had been on any other tinder dates so obviously she's stalking my ****. Either way I shouldn't of logged on imo...that's what I hare about tinder.
Lozboss
Master Don Juan
Captain who cares?
YOU OWE HER NOTHING. She isn't your gf.
You do what YOU want.
Fix your mindset and stop acting Beta and Butthurt. Harsh words but true.
YOU OWE HER NOTHING. She isn't your gf.
You do what YOU want.
Fix your mindset and stop acting Beta and Butthurt. Harsh words but true.