"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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flaked on her third date now she wont talk to me

captain55

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Thought i would like this other girl better. Should I apologize and say I like to make it up to her and tell her I really like her? I know it's a bad idea to tell a chick you like her before banging her and against dj policy but I blew her off pretty bad... I don't think a simple hey Wyd text will suffice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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badboyjmm

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captain55 said:
Thought i would like this other girl better. Should I apologize and say I like to make it up to her and tell her I really like her? I know it's a bad idea to tell a chick you like her before banging her and against dj policy but I blew her off pretty bad... I don't think a simple hey Wyd text will suffice.
There's no reason to tell her you like her, show her by actions (i.e: teasing her and banging)

Plan another date: ''Let's go to (insert cool place) so we can have fun going (cool activity) at this time''

Done deal.
 

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Also to be clear I wasn't.a dumbass I didn't ignore a girl with high IL for no reason. She was playing the game with me...saturday I sent her a very nice text complimenting her and she ignored it until the next day. I just felt like giving her a taste of her own medicine...was hoping she would get the message I don't like being ignored but.she's got an ego obviously and is taking my behavior as rejection I think. I think she saw my profile being active on tinder too....she even asked me if I had been on any other tinder dates so obviously she's stalking my ****. Either way I shouldn't of logged on imo...that's what I hare about tinder.
 

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Captain who cares?

YOU OWE HER NOTHING. She isn't your gf.

You do what YOU want.

Fix your mindset and stop acting Beta and Butthurt. Harsh words but true.
 
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