Maybe i shouldve anticipated this already but frankly i wasnt surprised when it happened. But regardless its ok and normal for ppl to have their own lives and priorities...but nothing like this.
I kind of sensed this girl had low/moderate IL. Well i setup a time today 4:30 to meet me at X. I get a call before 4:30 telling me she'll be a little late cause of trains running slow.
Well i show up a little late also around 4:40-:45. Didnt see a sign of her in the area and even looked around the area. stayed till 5pm, no sign of her nor call, so i left.
I got back home around 5:30, my cell rang 3x and she hung up w/o even getting to my voicemail...(if she respected me at all she would've left a voicemail). I called her back and picks up and she asks where i am, so i tell her I just got back home. She said "ok i guess ill tty tomorrow or something." hang up. To top it off...she didnt have an excuse for her lateness.
A few mins later i texted that i dont tolerate BS from girls and if she doesnt respect me enough to meet me on time then dont waste my time. I didnt get a text back as i dont expect to, but i just wanted to make it clear with her.
From the start my gut already knew her IL was in the low...yet i still bothered with her anyway. my IL is low too but i wouldnt mind seeing her and see what happens...for the record we went on a date a week ago.
Was i too harsh and give it another shot or move on and let her phone me?
I kind of sensed this girl had low/moderate IL. Well i setup a time today 4:30 to meet me at X. I get a call before 4:30 telling me she'll be a little late cause of trains running slow.
Well i show up a little late also around 4:40-:45. Didnt see a sign of her in the area and even looked around the area. stayed till 5pm, no sign of her nor call, so i left.
I got back home around 5:30, my cell rang 3x and she hung up w/o even getting to my voicemail...(if she respected me at all she would've left a voicemail). I called her back and picks up and she asks where i am, so i tell her I just got back home. She said "ok i guess ill tty tomorrow or something." hang up. To top it off...she didnt have an excuse for her lateness.
A few mins later i texted that i dont tolerate BS from girls and if she doesnt respect me enough to meet me on time then dont waste my time. I didnt get a text back as i dont expect to, but i just wanted to make it clear with her.
From the start my gut already knew her IL was in the low...yet i still bothered with her anyway. my IL is low too but i wouldnt mind seeing her and see what happens...for the record we went on a date a week ago.
Was i too harsh and give it another shot or move on and let her phone me?