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usernamedox11

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Anyone ever see this?

I agree to plans with a girl over text, she agrees. Then she asks me a question, I answer it and say I'll tell her more in person and then say "see you sunday have a good rest of your week"

she didn't reply saying "you too" or anything

i've seen girls like this and they haven't flaked but do you think she will flake? I'm prepared for her flaking, just wondering if you guys have seen similar **** with a girl not showing basic courtesy and it being correlated to flaking
 

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If she Flakes then just Next her. Stop worrying about it. Hold your centre/frame and be strong that if she does you don't care as you have options.

I wouldn't read too much into courtesy- women always are disappointing on the whole when it comes to communication.
 

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she's flaking, sent another text asking "what's up," no reply after being very punctual. Deleted # and now don't have to waste any time.
 

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You don't text a girl before the date. Major fail.
 

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Obsidian said:
You don't text a girl before the date. Major fail.

that's a silly statement really. It doesnt matter whether he texts the girl before the date or not (unless he texts her some kind of weird/creepy comment of course).
In this case the chick did not have any intentions of going out with OP in the first place.

Had she had any interest, she would have replied and they would be in a date by now.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Obsidian said:
You don't text a girl before the date. Major fail.
nah, she was gonna flake, no reply, so I scheduled something with another girl I was talking to...this way i don't waste my time. my goal is to avoid having my time wasted as girls are very flakey with online dating
 

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Maybe she was going to flake anyway, but, the "what's up" text didn't help. If I were you I would have let her flake, and then not contacted her again.
 

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altec said:
Maybe she was going to flake anyway, but, the "what's up" text didn't help. If I were you I would have let her flake, and then not contacted her again.
Yeah i would have done that if I didn't have any other options, but verifying she was gonna flake had me pursue my more receptive option instead. She's not as hot but decent enough. She said she's really excited so all is good on my end :up:
 
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