"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Flake analysis

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navyseal2101

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I haven't really had a flake yet but does this sound like it? Note, she approached me and was all over me for about an hour before this. I waited a few days b/c I was really busy and heres what I got. Note these are text messages.

Me: Whats up?
Her: Hey! nothing you?
Me: Not much just chillin' with friends, what are you doin over break?
Her: Not sure yet. Why?
Me:We should chill sometime.
Her: Ok mabye sometime.

I'm thinking the last message was either not interested or playing hard to get kind of. I don't want to over-analyze or anything bu I'm just not really sure and don't want to waste my time, I think in the meanwhile ill chill with other girls and of course my bros lol. What do you guys think, should I call her back or wait for her?
 

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Rata Blanca

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How can she flake on you if you didn't even ask her out?.
What do you think she is thinking now?
"He probably isn't even interested cause he doesn't even asks me out"
Telling her "Let's chill sometime" isn't asking her out.
Women say "we should chill sometime"
Men say "Lets go this day, to this place, at this hour"
Next time call her (you do have her number don't you?) And instead of saying "Let's chill sometime" be concrete, "Hey I'm calling you so we can go to the park this monday, at 6pm" (you can offer to pick her up or tell her you should meet up there)

Just read anti-dump machine, it's all you need.
 
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