"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Flake analysis

navyseal2101

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I haven't really had a flake yet but does this sound like it? Note, she approached me and was all over me for about an hour before this. I waited a few days b/c I was really busy and heres what I got. Note these are text messages.

Me: Whats up?
Her: Hey! nothing you?
Me: Not much just chillin' with friends, what are you doin over break?
Her: Not sure yet. Why?
Me:We should chill sometime.
Her: Ok mabye sometime.

I'm thinking the last message was either not interested or playing hard to get kind of. I don't want to over-analyze or anything bu I'm just not really sure and don't want to waste my time, I think in the meanwhile ill chill with other girls and of course my bros lol. What do you guys think, should I call her back or wait for her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rata Blanca

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How can she flake on you if you didn't even ask her out?.
What do you think she is thinking now?
"He probably isn't even interested cause he doesn't even asks me out"
Telling her "Let's chill sometime" isn't asking her out.
Women say "we should chill sometime"
Men say "Lets go this day, to this place, at this hour"
Next time call her (you do have her number don't you?) And instead of saying "Let's chill sometime" be concrete, "Hey I'm calling you so we can go to the park this monday, at 6pm" (you can offer to pick her up or tell her you should meet up there)

Just read anti-dump machine, it's all you need.
 
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