"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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navyseal2101

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I haven't really had a flake yet but does this sound like it? Note, she approached me and was all over me for about an hour before this. I waited a few days b/c I was really busy and heres what I got. Note these are text messages.

Me: Whats up?
Her: Hey! nothing you?
Me: Not much just chillin' with friends, what are you doin over break?
Her: Not sure yet. Why?
Me:We should chill sometime.
Her: Ok mabye sometime.

I'm thinking the last message was either not interested or playing hard to get kind of. I don't want to over-analyze or anything bu I'm just not really sure and don't want to waste my time, I think in the meanwhile ill chill with other girls and of course my bros lol. What do you guys think, should I call her back or wait for her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rata Blanca

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How can she flake on you if you didn't even ask her out?.
What do you think she is thinking now?
"He probably isn't even interested cause he doesn't even asks me out"
Telling her "Let's chill sometime" isn't asking her out.
Women say "we should chill sometime"
Men say "Lets go this day, to this place, at this hour"
Next time call her (you do have her number don't you?) And instead of saying "Let's chill sometime" be concrete, "Hey I'm calling you so we can go to the park this monday, at 6pm" (you can offer to pick her up or tell her you should meet up there)

Just read anti-dump machine, it's all you need.
 
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