"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fixing past mistakes

Corndowg

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How would I go about fixing past mistakes? I did some hardcore AFC ****. I'm about to be 20 and the past few years i've done some serious AFC mistakes before discovering this site.

For example, one girl got a poem from me. I was chasing her and it didn't work. I tried a lot of AFC **** and she loved the poems and all that but she said that she thinks of me as her best friend. WTF?

I doubt i can fix that.

This other girl is my friends cousin. I was her first" guy" and we got to make out a bit. She really seemed to be into me hardcore. She was younger than me and i gave her a poem too. Another fvck up.
She is kinda heartbroken (full of ****) about it and won't see me because she thinks I'm more into her then vice versa. I think I also shot her up on that pedestal.

Any help on how i would try to fix these past mistakes with our currrent DJ skills. The first one said that i'm more outgoing since i went to college and i've all been through so much that i seem like a different person. Its like i might have a fresh start with that one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Porky

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Move on. Next them. You can rarely fix past mistakes. If you could, I have about 12 girls I'd be calling right now.
 

drixsa

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you dont fix those things

they become fixed once you have moved on, accepted what has happened, and just forget about it

there are so many girls out there WHY WORRY ABOUT 2 OF THEM?
 

Paid Laid & Made

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Getting your ass back out there, fixes things, nothing else will. Consider it a AFC moment on your part and learn from it.
 

digitalrat

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There is nothing like learning from a mistake.

Fvcking up is the best teacher. I've read all the stuff on this site and planted it into my subconcious. But, without going out there and trying different things and learning about myself and not redoing mistakes I would still be an AFC.

The first girl that I ran into while a RAFC was an attention wh0re. Man, she was test material. I've ran so much **** across her that its crazy. I've learned so much that the time I invested in her and I still havent fvcked her doesnt matter. I'm even trying to hook my boy up with her. I don't want her anymore. I'm glad that she played so much games and tought me so much. I might even thank her one day.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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