"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fixing my weak points

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I just moved to Atlanta about 3 weeks ago and now starting my search for personal training jobs in the area. Unfortunately I don't want to use my money to pay a membership so I've been forced to use alternatives.

I'm pretty sure my legs have lost significant strength but my upper body is stronger than ever. I do many different variations of pull ups, L-Pull ups, Dips and planches.

I got a free trial membership with a gym recently and was surprised that I had not lost as much strength as I feared I would have.

I was still able to Military Press 135 for 6 reps
Deadlift 425 (lost over 10lbs)
Squat over 200

etc..

Even more impressively I'm able to do planche push ups for 5 reps.

My diet hasn't changed at all..

Eggs, beef, fruits, veggies, water fish oil, multi etc, etc...I don't make chicken at all but I haven't noticed any drawbacks to that. I'd eventually like to start eating fish again but I'm not sure if the cost is worth the benefit.

So in short not having a gym is not ideal especially since I'd like to compete in a powerlifting meet at the end of the year, but it has forced me to come up with some interesting bodyweight exercises and explore different ways to strength train that will only get me stronger once I start picking up the weights again.

If your one of these people who only gets their strength training from going to a gym only, I think it would benefit you to be open minded to other avenues of assisting your weightlifting regime. Try gymnastic training or simply go to a playground and make up your own way to train.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aren't you the guy both claiming to squat 350+ for 20 to me before now, and here you squat "over 200". How are you going to a powerlifting meet? How much do you actually squat?

Doing planches is cool, however.
 

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I also like medicine ball work.
Overhead presses with sandbags are nasty, nasty business.

Good luck with finding a job btw.
 

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I've got long limbs, genetically it makes pulling easier for me than most. Plus I happen to be a pretty strong mofo.

My numbers for squatting would probably be higher but I always do high rep squats and I always go deep. I'm actually closer to squatting 315 for reps but the purpose of my post was never meant to be about what i lift.

read and post in my log if you wanna talk about my stats.
 
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