"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fixing a Bad First Kiss

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black-n-white911

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so my co-worker took me home the other day, and after about a month or so of casual flirting, i decide to kiss her goodnight... but i ****ed up. i was still trying to peck when she slid me her tounge.. i was so concerned with her rejecting that i played it too safe resulting in sloppyness....

i've seen her a couple times at work and school since than and have never found a way to get another crack at it....

im thinking she is kinda turned off to kissing again, but no so much turned off to me... whut should i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in the Mood

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Next time don't wait a MONTH to kiss her.
 
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I'm in the Mood

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Damn dude! I would apologize to her and tell her that you don't do work relationships.

Those can be dangerous, especially if she works above you.
If you fvcked her and didn't want a relationship she could force you into one by threatening to fire you.
Same as if you're in a relationship and you break it off.

Man there are plenty of other women, you don't need to go there lol
 
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nah it aint that serious my contract expires in december so i can apply in another department if **** gets crazy. plus this has been an ambition of mine for a while hahah how ****ed up is that??

anyway back on subject how do i fix the situation?? i definatly dont want to be kissing goodbye everyday but i wanna be able to go in when i please you know??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know very little about women man, but if she's still into you then I don't see a problem at all. Ask her out to a non-"ride home" situation. Lunch, movie, coffee...whatever. When you guys part, do it proper.
 
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