"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fixing a Bad First Kiss

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so my co-worker took me home the other day, and after about a month or so of casual flirting, i decide to kiss her goodnight... but i ****ed up. i was still trying to peck when she slid me her tounge.. i was so concerned with her rejecting that i played it too safe resulting in sloppyness....

i've seen her a couple times at work and school since than and have never found a way to get another crack at it....

im thinking she is kinda turned off to kissing again, but no so much turned off to me... whut should i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Next time don't wait a MONTH to kiss her.
 
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I'm in the Mood

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Damn dude! I would apologize to her and tell her that you don't do work relationships.

Those can be dangerous, especially if she works above you.
If you fvcked her and didn't want a relationship she could force you into one by threatening to fire you.
Same as if you're in a relationship and you break it off.

Man there are plenty of other women, you don't need to go there lol
 
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nah it aint that serious my contract expires in december so i can apply in another department if **** gets crazy. plus this has been an ambition of mine for a while hahah how ****ed up is that??

anyway back on subject how do i fix the situation?? i definatly dont want to be kissing goodbye everyday but i wanna be able to go in when i please you know??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know very little about women man, but if she's still into you then I don't see a problem at all. Ask her out to a non-"ride home" situation. Lunch, movie, coffee...whatever. When you guys part, do it proper.
 
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