3 Biggest Flaws
User: Incog
1)
Flaw: Laziness
Mistakes & Consequences: Lack of desire to close, procrastination. Leads to missed opportunities and later regret.
Plan: I am setting up a calendar in which I am to follow for 2 weeks. If the day says "Gym, 2 approaches," I will approach 2 women that day and I will go to the gym. Approaches will not be every day so that I do not feel the obligation to approach at all times but yet am not lazy about it. After 2 weeks, I will reassess the situation and my patterns of laziness. Hoping to make the good patterns a habit. I will not let a vice that most humans suffer from attack me and hinder me. I will step up.
2)
Flaw: Excuses
Mistakes & Consequences: Externalizing blame on the setting or situation. Creating excuses why I am not going to approach or close. Once again procrastination and regret come in. Telling myself "There is always next time," or "This is not the place to approach her," or "It's not appropriate now." Letting the setting dictate my will to act. Allowing my surrounding group to dictate my will to act.
Plan: There is no excuse for not trying. I will approach any female I see that I find attractive. I will evaluate their deservance of my time and act accordingly. I will not see most of the people in a random setting again, so I can act how I feel for the time being and it will not hurt me. I am strong, and it is foolish to let such a petty mental excuse hold me back from being me.
3)
Flaw: Hesitation in escalation
Mistakes & Consequences: Not moving quick enough. Not going for it all often enough. Not kiss closing after heavy kino. Occasional fear of relationship/circumstances if rejected on the close. Overthinking and overanalyzing situation instead of acting.
Plan: I will act impulsively. My primal, manly instincts will not be overshadowed by thought. I will act on instinct in the moment, and then worry about the future afterwards. I will take what I want without hesitation. This begins during my next encounter that is isolated and involves kino.