"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fix posture; chiropractor

jago25_98

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My posture isn't great.
It's not mental but physical.

I would like to:

- have my shoulders sit back naturally
without having to pull them back all the time (impossible to do all the
time)

- bring hips forward

Main thing is shoulders.

Been lifting for ~5 years, know what I'm doing and looking for new knowledge.
Feel strong and serious about it. Would do surgery for it.

I want to try it all but I've literally got no money.

Went to a chiropractor and she said I had the worst posture she'd seen for my age. (probably due to very heavy computer usage, addiction really). But it cost £35 for an hour and did nothing. As someone who's used to putting my body through pain for gain it felt like a joke - what she was doing wasn't going to help and what motivation did she have to `cure` me; lost business? I left with no visual map of the muscles in my back that I needed for training. She seemed to think that sitting up properly is going to fix a bent back.

Some things I'm going to be chacking out:
- stretching
- yoga
- training

But I'm looking for more info, i.e. surgery.

What I would like is to push my shoulders back with a machine. I find it's very hard to stretch without assistance. I feel if I could step out of my body and do it myself I'd be able to fix it in time.

This is similar in severity to have I have:


and an extreme example:
http://medicine.ucsd.edu/clinicalmed/thorax-kyphosis.JPG
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jason86

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aye man my brother had something called kyphosis when he was younger, basically like a hunchback. he had to wear this back brace or something. check that out.
 

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Could you put your brother in contact with me? I'd really like to know how he cured it --> jago25_98 at hotmail.com
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I actually just asked him about it. Just ask your doctor if he can get a specialised back brace for you, for your kyphosis. Thats pretty much all that was done, nothing else to it. The back brace then held his back straight and it got used to being in that position. If you got any questions, ill ask him for you.
 

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Seiza!!!!!

look it up.
 

jago25_98

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Ah yes Seiza, numb toes and bruised ankles, I remember that ;) Damn I'm one bitter guy :D

Started on the exercises I linked to at TNation. Pretty good! Did all the part 4 I could at the gym - Next day mu shoulders were back naturally!

( went straight to the pic here and printed:
http://www.t-nation.com/readTopic.do;jsessionid=CED796D524657B456455A0B1D33C39E1.titan?id=472224 )

I'll check out the brace. Felt perhaps, maybe a brace makes the back get used to it so then when you take it off it gets worse? - or does it stretch you into a better position?

Anyway, I'm gonna check out a back brace for on the pull that Salsa dancers use!

Thanks for asking your bro, bro :)
 
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