"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Five unknown "weaknesses" Women HATE and how to easily avoid them.

blayde

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1. Blaming. You blame other people or situations for anything. You say "If only". Remember guys. She wants a positive can do man.

2. Laziness. Is your car filthy? Shoes scuffed? Youre lazy.

3. Feminine. Are you muscular? In shape? If not your feminine.

4. Boring. What emotion did she have on your last get together? Cant remember? She was bored .

5. Indecisive. Did you have a plan in place? If not? You know you cant make decisions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tactic

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Well it's kinda old but yeah nice
 

DJ Alejandro

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wel, for a newbie, salutes for your effort. u reminded me of myself a few years back. hehe

basically, that's it. hehe
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ice Cold

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Originally posted by blayde
2. Laziness. Is your car filthy? Shoes scuffed? Youre lazy.
True, but FUKK YOU ABOUT THE SHOES.

My shoes are dirty. It doesn't mean I'm lazy. It means I don't need clean shoes at doing what I do and I don't spend time on unproductive stuff.

Cheers
 

WaterTiger

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Re: Re: Five unknown "weaknesses" Women HATE and how to easily avoid them.

Originally posted by Ice Cold
True, but FUKK YOU ABOUT THE SHOES.

My shoes are dirty. It doesn't mean I'm lazy. It means I don't need clean shoes at doing what I do and I don't spend time on unproductive stuff.

Cheers
If your shoes are dirty, you're either lazy or a slob. It takes all of thirty seconds to swipe some polish over your shoes. Girls notice this stuff!
 

Ice Cold

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Girls notice, I agree...

But they still go for me, cause I've got something better going for me than clean shoes, and you won't be able to achieve what i have in 30 seconds...
 

Slashco

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Don't forget clean fingernails and well-groomed hair, they can make the difference between looking sharp or slobby.
 

duke007

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That reminds me I have to clean my car. Thanks dude! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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happyhourhero

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2. Laziness. Is your car filthy? Shoes scuffed? Youre lazy.
My shoes aren't scuffed, they're broken in =) like 70's rock star boots. Not gonna polish those

But ya if you're going for the GQ or more than casual look, definitely have spotless shoes
 

oOh Nasty

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Girls notice, I agree...

But they still go for me, cause I've got something better going for me than clean shoes, and you won't be able to achieve what i have in 30 seconds...
it probably took you more time typing those responses than cleaning your shoes.
 

ScrewIt

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your feminine part is wrong

my boss at work is somewhat o nthe skinny side and he's very masculine, confident, orders taht messes up he'll get angry and demand to know why, etc. he has a HB9 wife he recently married

you can be in shape and fit, and still be feminine, there are many examples out there.

AS LONG AS YOU DONT ACT FEMININE, it's all that matters.
 

MidwestFreek

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takes more than 30 seconds to clean MY shoes...takes about 5 minutes or more per shoe...white shoes are a ***** to keep clean
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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