"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Five types of guys get the ass

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jakethasnake

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Re: Re: Five types of guys get the ass

Originally posted by becker
I have to disagree with this line. Last girl bailed on me because I put her through an emotional rollercoaster. She used those exact words.

It just depends on what phase of her life she is in at said time. If she's tired of BS games and drama at that particular juncture (for ever and ever, or just for the time being) - then she'll resent you for playing with her emotions like that. A year later she might be feeling frisky again and ready to throw herself into the BS Game again. You just never know. Things aren't absolute.
 

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I'm not a Status or Money dude cause I'm not good looking nor have lots of money but I am 50% Funny/Jerky dude, 25% Player and 25% Thug.
 

Derek Flint

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That sounds like the 5 types of guys D'Angelo talks about in his DYD basic book.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ilikecharlene

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I agree with the OP. We're too PC in contemporary society, but I think women are innately geared to confidence. Be Alpha, be confident and that is one major factor in getting dates.
 
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