"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Five types of guys get the ass

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jakethasnake

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Re: Re: Five types of guys get the ass

Originally posted by becker
I have to disagree with this line. Last girl bailed on me because I put her through an emotional rollercoaster. She used those exact words.

It just depends on what phase of her life she is in at said time. If she's tired of BS games and drama at that particular juncture (for ever and ever, or just for the time being) - then she'll resent you for playing with her emotions like that. A year later she might be feeling frisky again and ready to throw herself into the BS Game again. You just never know. Things aren't absolute.
 

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I'm not a Status or Money dude cause I'm not good looking nor have lots of money but I am 50% Funny/Jerky dude, 25% Player and 25% Thug.
 

Derek Flint

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That sounds like the 5 types of guys D'Angelo talks about in his DYD basic book.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree with the OP. We're too PC in contemporary society, but I think women are innately geared to confidence. Be Alpha, be confident and that is one major factor in getting dates.
 
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