"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fitch's Inner Revolution.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The replies to my thread are OUT OF PROPORTION to the users whom have read it.

Perhaps we should develop a lazier way of responding to posts?

A "quick reply," perhaps!
 

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wow I just read your first post. You're a good writer. You also seem kind of lonely. So tell you what, I'll be a real pal and tag along. :)

Wow these new smileys are so cool. :up:
 
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Originally posted by Kerensky
wow I just read your first post. You're a good writer. You also seem kind of lonely. So tell you what, I'll be a real pal and tag along. :)

Wow these new smileys are so cool. :up:
Thank you.

UPDATE ON MY JOURNAL:

http://j-j-e.blogspot.com is my GENERAL SITE.

Here I write creative pieces, or whatever is on my mind. Expect the unexpected!

http://kyletheperfectionist.blogspot.com/ is my "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL."

This "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL" will initiate on May 17. See the site for more details.

I am wondering: how do I make a journal on my "test of will," in addition to listing?

Thoughts, suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Man, what the hell my link disappeared...

ok here it is again: The Good Man Project

Hey Fitch I have a suggestion for you. Just keep it all in 1 journal, or 2 at the max. I see you've ditched the other 2 already, so when in doubt, remember:

KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID

Seriously, checking on 4 journals seems like you're overdoing it and updating all 4 will eat up a chunk of your time. Cheers.
 

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I know. I have two.

If you acually checked, you would have known.

I may just combine both journals into one.

List the accomplishments before I go to bed, and creativly rant or write a short story right after my homework.

www.j-e-e.blogspot.com

This is definate journal, and it will incorporate both journals until futher notice.
 
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