"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fitch's Inner Revolution.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
Wow these new smileys are so cool.
Thank you.Originally posted by Kerensky
wow I just read your first post. You're a good writer. You also seem kind of lonely. So tell you what, I'll be a real pal and tag along.
Wow these new smileys are so cool.
UPDATE ON MY JOURNAL:
http://j-j-e.blogspot.com is my GENERAL SITE.
Here I write creative pieces, or whatever is on my mind. Expect the unexpected!
http://kyletheperfectionist.blogspot.com/ is my "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL."
This "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL" will initiate on May 17. See the site for more details.
I am wondering: how do I make a journal on my "test of will," in addition to listing?
Thoughts, suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
ok here it is again: The Good Man Project
Hey Fitch I have a suggestion for you. Just keep it all in 1 journal, or 2 at the max. I see you've ditched the other 2 already, so when in doubt, remember:
KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID
Seriously, checking on 4 journals seems like you're overdoing it and updating all 4 will eat up a chunk of your time. Cheers.
If you acually checked, you would have known.
I may just combine both journals into one.
List the accomplishments before I go to bed, and creativly rant or write a short story right after my homework.
www.j-e-e.blogspot.com
This is definate journal, and it will incorporate both journals until futher notice.