"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fitch's Inner Revolution.
- Thread starter Fitch
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
Wow these new smileys are so cool.
Thank you.Originally posted by Kerensky
wow I just read your first post. You're a good writer. You also seem kind of lonely. So tell you what, I'll be a real pal and tag along.
Wow these new smileys are so cool.
UPDATE ON MY JOURNAL:
http://j-j-e.blogspot.com is my GENERAL SITE.
Here I write creative pieces, or whatever is on my mind. Expect the unexpected!
http://kyletheperfectionist.blogspot.com/ is my "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL."
This "TEST OF WILL JOURNAL" will initiate on May 17. See the site for more details.
I am wondering: how do I make a journal on my "test of will," in addition to listing?
Thoughts, suggestions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
ok here it is again: The Good Man Project
Hey Fitch I have a suggestion for you. Just keep it all in 1 journal, or 2 at the max. I see you've ditched the other 2 already, so when in doubt, remember:
KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID
Seriously, checking on 4 journals seems like you're overdoing it and updating all 4 will eat up a chunk of your time. Cheers.
If you acually checked, you would have known.
I may just combine both journals into one.
List the accomplishments before I go to bed, and creativly rant or write a short story right after my homework.
www.j-e-e.blogspot.com
This is definate journal, and it will incorporate both journals until futher notice.